MOM GUILT

Sep 14, 2020

Can I tell you a little secret?!

I didn't really want kids!

The majority of my life I was always 100% CAREER DRIVEN! 

Anytime I would think about my future, I always envisioned myself in a sophisticated outfit, going on business trips, be on big stages, training, teaching, inspiring others. That sorta stuff!

I knew I was put on this earth to do BIG things, and that's what I was going to do! And that vision never included having little rugrats! 😱

Until it did...

Life always has a way of throwing us curveballs, doesn't it?

When my husband and I just got married my doctor suggested we go visit an infertility clinic (I have PCOS and a pituitary tumor. Basically, my hormones are jacked up and I've always known that pregnancy would be a real bitoch!)

In the back of my mind, I'm like WTF? I don't even really want kids, why on earth is she telling me to go to an infertility clinic?! 

But, we went anyhow. It was so awkward lol here we were, NOT EVEN TRYING to have kiddos and we're sitting in this doctor's office. 

Anyhow, long story short here. We had a HUGEEEE surprise

NEITHER of us could have kids!! Like I'm talking ZERO percent chance of us being able to conceive naturally!

Isn't it funny how once something is taken away, then you REALLY WANT IT?!?! lol

So, we ended up starting the adoption process. 

But, here's what you need to know...

The entire time I've been a mom, the reality of me wanting to do BIG things hasn't changed! I've realized I can be a mom AND have a successful business!

Are you letting 'Mom Guilt' hold you back?

If you are, you aren't believing you can do big things & have big dreams because #momlife is busy, and it's tough, and you might think "you shouldn't". 

I'm here to tell you, that's just wrong!!

Your kiddos deserve & NEED to see their mom diving head first, because they learn to do the same!!

 

YOU CAN DO THIS!

 

Cheering you on 💕

Michelle

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